Exhausted from the unforgettable night at the quinceañera, most of us took advantage of the opportunity to catch up on some much-needed sleep. Almost everyone slept in later than 1 p.m., and we spent the rest of the day with our host families. After waking up, many enjoyed traditional asados with extended family and friends. As always, there was a lot of steak and a lot of good company. Some spent their last full days relaxing with host families over Spanish movies, lake fishing, or games of Fortnite on Playstation. Others went to shopping centers to buy dulce de leche, alfajores, mate, and clothing as souvenirs for themselves and their families. In the evening, a large group met at a cinema in Quilmes to catch a late showing of Deadpool 2 in English with Spanish subtitles. The movie was suspenseful and hilarious, but the last night with the exchange students was bittersweet. Everyone had their own experiences in Argentina, but no one was quite ready to depart.
On Monday morning, we woke up early to finish packing our bags before the last day at Quilmes High School. It was unbelievable that it had been two full weeks since we left Cary. After a quick breakfast with our families, we drove to QHS for the last time ever. Before our final activities, we met in the lobby to drop off our suitcases and check our passports. Amazingly, no one had lost theirs despite a few close calls!
We then gathered in the video room for a general knowledge trivia competition while the exchange students had classes. Mr. Pauni gave us 10 minutes to answer 15 questions, some of which were in Spanish. The topics included Argentinian history, politics, and math. After a few minutes of silent focus, we passed our papers to Mr. Pauni to be graded.
While we waited for the bell to dismiss our exchange students from class, we relaxed in the gym and played casual games of ping pong and soccer-volleyball, as usual. Our students met us in the gym for our final assembly and activities. Everyone had a few minutes to hang out, and we all used the time to take some final group pictures.
The two group activities were sentimental and symbolic. First, we created a “Tree of Life” out of our handprints. Each set of partners picked a paint color and made their handprints on the collective poster to be displayed by the school. Clothing was stained in the process, but the end product was colorful and memorable. Some partners got creative, and one pair even chose to use the colors of La Boca, an Argentinian soccer team, for their handprints. The activity was a way of sealing the friendships that we forged throughout the 4 weeks we spent together.
The second activity involved balloons and wishes. According to superstition, wishes that are written down, attached to balloons, and released into the sky are bound to come true. With our partners, we settled on a wish, wrote it down, and attached it to a balloon. Due to environmental concerns about the role of discarded plastics in water pollution, we decided against releasing the balloons in the open air. Instead, all at once, each pair released their balloon inside the gymnasium. It was cooler that way, since all the balloons remained together on the ceiling of the QHS gym.
Then it was lunchtime. A big group went out to a local restaurant to enjoy a meal together while others returned to their host families’ homes for a final home-cooked meal. Those who ate at home had a chance to say the final thank you’s and goodbye’s to the families. Everything was depressing. Even a glass of water became “the last glass of water in Argentina,” and the minutes ticked by as we dreaded our departure.
Before leaving, Mr. Pauni quickly announced the winners of that morning’s general knowledge competition: Victor, Ethan, and MK. Everyone applauded halfheartedly, but our minds were on the imminence of 3 p.m. — the time when we would have to say goodbye to Quilmes. Señora Fer then introduced the final slideshow. It contained pictures and videos of all the exchange trip memories, from our visit to La Casa Rosada to our field day at school. The melodramatic background music facilitated the sadness which was already beginning to fill the room. When the slideshow ended, the waterworks truly commenced. Almost everyone cried as we hugged, high-fived, and/or cheek-kissed our friends. It was an overwhelming display of how special and strong our friendships were.
This trip taught us a lot about Spanish language, Argentinian culture, and all the other things that Cary Academy emphasizes about the Exchange program. But the most valuable and rewarding thing that we gained from the trip was a sense of unity with our classmates, both from Cary and from Quilmes. Our friendships transcended the frequent grammatical mistakes and cultural faux pas that we made during the homestay. Even the Cary Academy group grew much closer. Saying goodbye to our students was so difficult because we also were saying goodbye to the feeling of togetherness that had been so unique to the exchange trip. Although we all promised to keep in touch, it was still sad to see everything coming to an end.
As Mr. Lazarski corralled us onto the bus, everyone slowly pulled away from their students and took their seats. For a few minutes, we knocked on the glass window and waved goodbye to our Argentinian family. The bus finally pulled away, and our tour guide, Laura, handed out alfajores to console everyone. On the way to the airport, we played some Argentinian music, talked about the trip, and watched the town of Quilmes pass us by.
When we arrived at Ezeiza Airport, we disembarked and passed through checking, passport control, and security. Everything went smoothly, and we had a few hours to get dinner or a snack before boarding. At 7:20, we queued up for boarding and prepared for the long journey home.
Thanks to everyone who made the exchange experience possible including Sra. Kridle and Mr. Lazarski, Sra. Fer and Sra. Silvia, all the Quilmes students and families, and all the CA parents. We have gained so much from both the hosting and traveling phases and have enjoyed every second. Quilmes 2018 was truly unforgettable!